Queer Men, It’s Okay to Want Monogamy

BOYSLUT ISSUE 37: When it seems like every gay man is in or wants an open relationship, it can be challenging to admit you just want that one special guy.

Photos by Rodrigo Larios.

I was arguing with a close friend about ethical non-monogamy when I said something I shouldn’t have: “You can either have a monogamous relationship where your boyfriend cheats on you, or you can have an open relationship.”

I was wrong. These aren’t the only two types of relationships. I was speaking hyperbolically to make a point…