Can a (Boy)Slut Ever Find Love?
BOYSLUT ISSUE 23: Sluts committing, voting, and WHOREible Decisions.
Photo credit: Kevin D. Hoover
I miss cruising. I miss that look you get while you’re sitting in the sauna. I miss the fear of when you think you misconstrued that look. I miss grimy sex clubs. I miss dark rooms. I miss a stranger grabbing my furry ass. I miss reaching over and grabbing a rock hard cock. I miss getting on my knees. I miss them getting on their knees. I miss making out. I miss the musk of a man. I miss the scent of a woman. I miss the sexual freedom that came pre-COVID. A freedom I took for granted.
But to every bad situation, there’s a silver lining. I’ve been able to connect with fewer people and spend my time focusing on these relationships. Instead of moving from one fleeting tryst to the next, excited about the next unexpected person to slide into my DMs, I’ve focused on the people in front of me.
(As promised, a photo from my shoot with Kevin D. Hoover. More to come! Model: Jonzu)
I’m picky with the people I date seriously—the people I eventually call my partners. I think my pickiness is often misconstrued. Most people who don’t know me well think I’m this player who will never settle down. That I’m incapable of being in a committed relationship. (FYI, committed does not mean monogamous. I plan to be in a committed ethically non-monogamous relationship.) I very much am, and have been in the past, I just don’t want to be in a serious relationship with the majority of people I meet. While I’m searching for a more serious partner, I still want to have sex; hence why I have a lot of FWBs. Or why I enjoy cruising as much as I do. It’s sex for sex’s sake. Nothing more. The married “straight” man in the locker room isn’t going to leave his wife for me. He was just looking to suck some dick. God bless his soul.
I find this slut/unable to commit dichotomy fucked up. Sluts can have partners. They can commit. They can find love. They’re just having some fun until they find the right person(s). Frankly, I think more people should live this way.
Alright, for the love of god please vote if you haven’t yet already. Election day is tomorrow, and I really struggled to write what little I did, as I’m freaking the fuck out. So vote, and if you have family members or friends in swing states, really get them to vote… assuming their voting Biden. If not, please encourage them to stay home. Fake an emergency. Do what you have to do.
The video of my WHOREible podcast has finally come out! God, what a fun, ridiculous podcast. Truly, the most fun I’ve had on a podcast to date. I mayyyy be starting my own podcast with someone I know you’ll love, and I plan to model it after WHOREible decisions. I think they do such a great fucking job.
That’s all for now. Please vote!
Your Boyslut,
Zachary Zane