Cum Get Naked With Me on a Gay Sex Boat in Mexico
I'm heading to Puerto Vallarta with VACAYA, a gay resort that has a floating red light district on a catamaran. Also, some BIG podcasts AND I'm heading to Chicago this weekend to talk Boyslut!
VACYA
I'm heading to VACAYA's LGBTQ+ resort takeover in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico, from October 29 to November 5, 2023. The all-inclusive resort has everything you could possibly want— a spa, pool, clothing-optional sky deck, gym, bars, 24-hour room service, and the like. There are seemingly endless day excursions you can go on, too, including scuba diving, snorkeling, ATVing, swimming with dolphins, and zip-lining, but frankly, I don’t care about any of that…
I’m collaborating with VACAYA (and getting my booty to Mexico) because they have a goddamn Floating Redlight District. Every night VACAYA charters, essentially, a BDSM double-decker catamaran, where I plan to have nonstop, kinky queer sex on the water.
(Photo credit VACAYA/Gabriel Goldberg)
I literally plan to be there every night because, like, are you freakin’ serious? A kinky sex boat with a boundless supply of horny queers? That’s not a catamaran, that’s HEAVEN.
FYI, VACAYA is for ALL the queers out there, regardless of gender. So, you’re all welcome to join me in getting daisy-chained on a catamaran. Oh, and if you’ve never traveled with VACAYA, you can get up to $200 off per 2023 Mexico resort room by using the code “ZANE2023” at checkout.
(Photo credit VACAYA/Gabriel Goldberg)
Additionally, VACAYA is having a little sweepstakes. The prize includes a double-occupancy room for you and a guest traveler! It’s free to enroll, and you can do so here!
I hope to see all of your beautiful faces (and booties) there.
Podcasts
In the past couple of weeks, I’ve had some truly great conversations on podcasts. As you know, I do a lot of these, and my fear is that I’m rehashing some of the same things that I always do, but I really feel I was able to explore new topics with detail and nuance—devlving a bit deeper with these past two podcasts.
The first was They Talk Sex with Elle Stanger (aka the stripperwriter).
Elle is kind enough to post timestamps, so in case you want to jump around and see what we talked about.
1:00 a book about bisexuality and shame
3:00 having OCD as a child and now
6:00 mental health and spirituality
10:00 bisexuality and stigma
13:00 not enjoying sex due to stress
16:00 a darn good therapist session
20:00 how do you role model healthy male sexuality?
25:00 tips on coming out to family members
28:00 more discussion on this ^
31:00 how to address my gf’s biphobia
34:00 Bi-Men, By Women book
38:00 if they aren’t 100% enthusiastic, maybe avoid them
42:00 real non-fiction erotica stories
46:00 theragun in the butt story
49:00 Boyslut things and projects
52:00 cancel culture vs call-ins
55:00 any sex tips for our audience?
The second was Fucking Cancelled with Clementine Morrigan and Jay Lesoleil.
I got to delve into nuances of consent culture in a way that I really never have before. And here’s a little descriptor of the episode: “In Episode 54, we are joined by author and bisexual icon, Zachary Zane, of the book Boyslut. We talk about bisexual men, biphobia, and bisexual audibility. We discuss sexual shame, sexual risk, and the complexities of consent. An unabashedly pro-sex, pro-desire writer, Zachary shines light on what men-who-fuck-men communities can teach the rest of us. This is three thirsty bisexuals talking shit. Absolutely iconic.”
Printers Row Lit Fest (in Chicago)
Last but not least, I’m going to be in Chicago this weekend and early next week (September 8-14.) I’m part of the Printers Row Lit Fest and will be having an hour-long conversation with Matt Faries of Unabridged Bookstore, talking all things Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto. The talk is at 4 p.m. on Saturday, September 9, at the Joseph and Bessie Feinberg Foundation Stage. (Map here!)
There are also a ton of other incredibly talented authors speaking this entire weekend, and you can check out the whole schedule here. (It’s all free!) Chicago peeps, HIT ME UP AND COME SEE ME!!!
xoxo,
The Boyslut