I originally wrote this piece in October 2015, right after the experience. I had come out as bisexual a year prior, though I had been drunkenly hooking up with men for years beforehand. I was new to the gay scene, threesomes, open relationships, and Grindr. It was the first time I ever documented a sexual encounter in an essay format. It was then publis…
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